Frequently Asked Questions
When did you move to the Netherlands? In February 2022, I moved from San Francisco, California to Utrecht, the Netherlands after living in the Bay Area my entire life. As a side note, if you find yourself in San Francisco and are seeking a spanking session, I would suggest that you see Josephine Drake.
How would you like me to address you? I prefer to be called either Miss, Gin, or Miss Gin. Please refrain from using the term Mistress, as it doesn't align with my preferences or make sense for me.
Are you a dominatrix? I am not a dominatrix or a Mistress. I don't expect you to serve me, and I won't engage in any BDSM scenes. My sessions are solely focused on providing non-sexual, safe, and consensual spanking play for adults.
Do you provide sexual services during your spanking sessions? I do not provide any kind of sexual services before, during, or after my spanking sessions. I am a disciplinarian and solely provide safe and consensual spanking play between consenting adults.
Do you use safe words? If you find it necessary to establish a safe word, we can discuss it before your session.
Can you spank me without leaving any marks or bruises? I can absolutely spank you in a way where you will not have any marks or bruises. In that case you will simply walk away with your bottom sporting a lovely shade of red.
Do you take photos during or after our spanking session? I will only take photos if the spankee requests it and if I believe it will not interrupt the session. It is only with the approval of the spankee that the photos will be posted on my FetLife, Twitter and/or blog, Smiles and Spanks.
Can I use you as a reference when seeing someone new? Yes, please do! I am always encouraging spankos to have multiple spanking play partners and I will happily provide a reference to make that happen if we have had a session together.
When did you start spanking? When I was nine years old I pulled a neighborhood boy over my knee and delivered a flurry of light swats. We were playing a game of teacher/student and he was being a “naughty student.” I guess you could say this was odd behavior for a nine year old, but in my mind I wasn’t doing anything wrong and the boy actually found the whole thing quite funny.
Can you remember when you first became interested in spanking? The obsession was firmly planted in my mind when I was seven years old after seeing an illustration of a young man being spanked in the children’s book Bored–Nothing To Do. After that, like so many other spankos, my ears always perked up whenever the word “spanking” was mentioned. In conversation, on television or in a book – it didn’t matter! This particular book was in my second grade classroom. During in-school Reading Time students were allow to choose one book from the small classroom library. Can you guess which book I decided to read everyday? I remember when it was time to return the books to the shelf I would shyly try to hide my special book in a place that would guarantee it would be there for me the next day. I couldn’t have another kid snatching up my precious book! I needed to see that illustration again! I needed to read those words over and over again, “A good spanking (and a kiss).” Shortly after discovering Bored–Nothing To Do my Barbie doll started giving my Ken doll spankings on a regular basis. Sometimes with her hand, other times with her slipper or hairbrush. After the spanking he would be sent upstairs to bed without dinner – poor Ken! I also kept a dictionary in my bedroom for the sole purpose of looking up words like “spanking” and “punishment.”
How did you learn how to spank? There was no Master Spanker to show me how to spank or a spanking training course. There was only the desire to spank and to be spanked. A person can learn a lot about spanking from being spanked…
Do you actually enjoy spanking? I tend to engage only in activities that bring me enjoyment and avoid those that don't resonate with me. I also have a deep passion for everything related to consensual spanking and I wouldn’t engage in spanking play with a person if I did not genuinely love every moment of the experience.
How often do you think about spanking? Everyday. Even when I am not doing something spanking related it is always in my mind.
Do you prefer spanking men or women? I have no preference.
Are you ever spanked? I understand what makes a good spanking from my own experiences as being a spankee and with that I am able to be a more accomplished top. I also believe it's crucial to be familiar with the sensation of each spanking implement I use.
Is there any chance that I could spank you during a session? Being spanked is an activity I save for my own personal spanking adventures outside of NaturallyGin. I do occasionally write about these experiences on my blog in the Just Gin and Spanking Implement of the Week categories.
Can you explain the reason behind my strong fascination with being spanked? I believe that if being spanked in a safe, sane, and consensual manner brings you happiness, there's no need to question it.
What happens if I run into you in the real world? I will respectfully ignore you and you will respectfully ignore me.
